The Three Questions That Help Reveal What You Truly Want ($9)

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Cut through the noise and confusion to see what you're truly choosing when you feel stuck between your marriage and your affair.

You're lying awake at 3am, anxious and overwhelmed.

You feel paralyzed between your marriage and your affair. Both feel right. Both feel wrong.

One day you're certain you should stay. Your history matters. Your family is everything. You made vows.

The next day you're ready to leave. Your affair partner feels like your soulmate. The intimacy is real. You deserve to be happy.

But here's what terrifies you: What if you choose wrong? What if you ruin everything?

Created by Lauren LaRusso, licensed therapist and infidelity specialist who has worked with 4,500+ people across all sides of the affair, this assessment hands you the three most important questions she asks her private clients to cut through the noise of fear and help them begin to get powerfully clear.

Most people make this decision while focused on the present moment — the intensity of feelings right now, the immediate pain or pleasure.

But the quality of your decision depends on your ability to project into the future and examine what you're truly choosing.

That's why I created a simple 3-question assessment that cuts through the emotional fog and helps you see what's really at stake.


This guide helped me realize where I really stood, which was different from where I thought I stood. This was huge because I saw that my true next steps were not the ones I had been imagining."

-K.P. client


What's Inside:

The 3 Essential Questions that reveal what you're running from and what you're running to

Expert guidance on why these questions matter, based on my work with hundreds of unfaithful spouses

A bonus question that helps you process what feels clear and what gives you pause

Clear next steps for when you're ready to go deeper

A framework you can return to again and again as you move toward your decision

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"Starting with this guide was the most important first step I took. It got me moving forward, whereas before I was just stagnant."

- R.L., client


A lot of people delay, thinking that with more time, they'll be able to figure it out themselves.

What they aren't considering is the extensive mental and emotional cost this truly takes — and what I see firsthand through my work with hundreds of people in affairs, is that telling yourself you're going to figure it out just leads to delay and more of the same cycle.

Making the choice to start now is one of the best choices you can make when the stakes are this high, and I'm so pleased to be able to offer you a simple and solid place to begin.

Don't stay stuck, spinning your wheels. There's so much risk in staying in uncertainty while you balance two lives and two relationships.

Download your 3 Questions assesmment today and start your journey forward.

Every product is backed by a 30-day money-back guarantee — so you don't have to worry about anything more than you already are.

If it's not right for you within 30 days, just email us and we'll refund you. No questions asked and no hoops to jump through.

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Gain + Loss Quadrant for Spouses in an Affair

(HIGHLY RECOMMENDED) See exactly what's at stake in your unique situation when faced with the decision between your marriage and your affair. 

This proprietary framework was designed by Lauren LaRusso to help her clients get clear by taking inventory of exactly what's at stake when deciding to commit to your marriage or your affair.

You'll be guided step-by-step through what you'll gain and what you'll lose on both sides, then clarify what's of most importance to you based on your personal values and priorities. 

Add The Gain + Loss Exercises now to give yourself the assessment that's helped hundreds of people replace confusion and overwhelm with greater clarity and self-connection.

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