For anyone ready to end an affair

You know it has to end. JUMPSTART shows you how to actually do it; and follow through.

JUMPSTART is the clear, 4-step method for ending an affair and reclaiming your life; with the steps, the mantras, and the real-world support to hold the line when the resistance and the grief come.

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Deciding to end an affair and actually ending it are two very different things.

You can mean it completely and still find the words won't come; still get to the edge and turn around. That's not a willpower problem. Ending an affair is a real loss, of a real relationship, and the part of yourself that lived there. So you need more than good intentions. You need a clear path, and something to hold onto when it gets hard.

JUMPSTART gives you both; clear, doable steps and the steadiness to keep walking them. The only way out is through.

You're not alone, and you don't have to figure this out on your own.

Inside JUMPSTART are the 4 steps:

• Get committed. Get fully clear on your reasons for ending it, ranked and honest, so you stop negotiating with yourself.
• Identify what has to change. Name the specific behaviors that keep the affair alive, and the opposite behaviors that end it; including the boundaries you'll need to communicate.
• Put words into action. Turn intention into consistent follow-through, with room for the grief and the relief that come with it.
• Maintain your recovery. What to do when you slip, how to begin again, and how to build a life of alignment in the space the affair used to fill.

Each step comes with a mantra to repeat when it gets hard; something to hold when the moment of truth arrives.

Imagine:

• Knowing exactly what to do next instead of spinning in place
• Holding your boundary even when it's met with resistance and negotiation
• Moving through the grief instead of getting stuck in it
• Waking up in a life that's honest and free, building something real in the space the affair took up

The gold is hiding in what's hard. This is your map through it.

I'm Lauren LaRusso; a licensed psychotherapist with 15 years of experience, an affair specialist, and the author of Beyond Infidelity (Penguin Random House). I work with people on every side of an affair; I don't take a side, and I don't shame anyone.

I built JUMPSTART because clarity about wanting to end something doesn't automatically tell you how. This is the how; the practical path, delivered with compassion.

My guarantee to you: Work the steps honestly. If JUMPSTART doesn't give you a clearer path to end your affair and follow through, email us within 30 days for a full refund.

FAQ

I've tried to end it before and couldn't. Will this be different? That's exactly who this is for. JUMPSTART is built to be returned to and repeated; ending an affair often takes more than one attempt, and the steps are designed to meet you each time you begin again.

Is this for the married spouse or the affair partner? Both. Whoever you are in the affair, the path to ending it and reclaiming your life is what this guide walks you through.

Will it shame me or push me to a decision? No. It honors that the relationship was real and the loss is real. It's here to support the decision you've already made, with no judgment.

Is it private? Completely. It comes to your inbox and the charge reads "LL CONS."

You're not alone, and you don't have to figure this out on your own.