This series of exercises is designed to make tangible what you gain - and what you will lose - from ending your affair with a married person.
You will do a full inventory of your relationship and the values it expresses. At the end, you will have completed a thorough values sort you'll know exactly how or how not your experience as an affair partner is aligning with your personal priorities, values, and goals.
If you're struggling with whether to end or remain in your affair, get the exercises that will help you get logical and clear about what's at stake.
The Gain + Loss Quadrant is the powerful tool I use with private clients to map out every single pro and con of your choices — so you can finally see the big picture clearly.
Stop spinning and start getting crystal clear about what you will gain and what you will lose by ending your affair relationship or continuing it. This is an essential step!
Don't delay — your clearer, more empowered decision-making process starts here.