THE GAIN + LOSS EXERCISES FOR SPOUSES IN AN AFFAIR

Torn between your marriage and your affair?
Get the clarity you need to stop spinning and start deciding — with confidence.

The Gain + Loss Exercises help you see exactly what’s at stake — what you’ll gain and what you’ll lose — no more confusion, no more guessing, just clear insight to move forward.

You're stuck between two lives because you love parts of both. You fear losing either.

So you stay suspended — one foot in your marriage, one in your affair — hoping the answer will somehow appear.

But it never does.

Because until you clearly see the real trade-offs — what each path will cost and what it will give — you’ll stay trapped in the affair fog, guilt, and indecision.

That’s where this tool comes in.

The Gain + Loss Exercises for Spouses in an Affair is a step-by-step guided exercise designed by infidelity specialist Lauren LaRusso to help you finally understand what’s truly on the line in each choice.

You’ll take a full, honest inventory of:

• What you gain emotionally, relationally, and practically by staying or leaving
• What you lose—and how much each loss really matters to you
• How your personal values and priorities shape what “the right decision” looks like for you
  

This is the exact process I use with my private clients to help them see their situation clearly — without the emotional noise or mental spin.

WHY IT WORKS:

You can’t make a clear decision when your mind is flooded with fear and fantasy.

The Gain + Loss Quadrant clears the fog so you can see the full picture:

✅ Logic + emotion balanced in one framework

✅ Step-by-step prompts that reveal your true priorities

✅ Concrete insight into the cost of staying stuck

You’ll walk away seeing — often for the first time —what your decisions are, and why.

THE VALUE:

Most people spend months (and thousands of dollars) in therapy trying to reach this level of clarity.

This exercise condenses that process into a single, guided experience — for just $14.

That’s a fraction of:

• One private therapy session ($150–$250/hour, or $700 for a private with Lauren LaRusso)
• One week of emotional limbo (the most expensive time of your life)
• The mental toll of another month spent second-guessing yourself
  

You’ll save time, money, and emotional energy by finally seeing the truth of your situation clearly.

You’ll finally understand what each path means for your happiness, security, and future.

You’ll stop fearing what you might lose and start recognizing what you could gain — either way.

And most importantly, you’ll begin trusting yourself anew.

You don’t need to decide everything today — but, take it from someone who has helped hundreds of people through their affairs... you do need to start.

The Gain + Loss Exercises for Spouses in an Affair: Just $14 — instant access, guided clarity.